“Self-Love, Self-Respect, Self-Worth… There is a Reason They all start with “Self”. You Cannot find them in Anyone Else. Happy Sunday 💯🙏🏽🙌🏽”
Tommy Dural (LinkedIn 13/6/21)
I stumbled on this post yesterday and it’s stuck in my mind.
When you read it through the lens of self awareness, you have to consider the conundrum of the view of the self held by the self versus the view of the self held by others. They’re often not the same.
In receiving feedback from others, you absolutely have to determine how it fits with your self…
You can choose to accept feedback, reject it or adapt it to suit your view of the world.
If you accept it, take it from someone who you respect.
If you reject it, do it from a position of consideration
If you adapt it, be clear about your objective for change
No one walks in your shoes. Judge for yourself what’s right for you.