Soft skills is a real contradiction in terms! Soft skills are the most difficult to acquire and by calling them ‘soft skills’, we don’t convey just how difficult they are to develop.

Two weeks ago I put out a poll seeking ideas for a better term than soft skills and this is the result, people voted for:

RELATIONAL SKILLS

Strangely, I discovered two other pills asking this same question live at the same time, and a number of different posts. These are some of the suggestions I found across LinkedIn and ideas the people posted in comments to my poll.

  • Behavioural attributes
  • Core qualities
  • Crucial characteristics (Jordan Gross)
  • EQ indicators
  • Essential qualities (this top of Jordan Gross‘s poll)
  • Foundational skills
  • Human skills (Simon Sinek)
  • Human technical skills
  • Intangibles
  • Interaction intelligence
  • Inter and intra personal skills
  • Non-negotiable (Jordan)
  • People practices
  • People skills
  • Power skills
  • Real skills
  • Response versatility

Thank you for your contribution. I think it’s quite a list!!

Language is always evolving. I look forward to hearing what the new common terms are for soft skills!